Thursday, February 26, 2009

Can A Smile Get Any Bigger???

Wednesday:
Wow! So we are having our second exam in Twi today. That means in about 2 or 3 weeks this class will be done. It’s enjoyable and I feel like this is a language I could actually be good in- but in 3 months you will not become fluent- I can say more things in Twi then in my 4 years of French- it’s a very easy language, I actually use it almost everyday. Twice a week is a lot, and it’s at such a weird time. The rest of the day is mine- no huge plans. We might go out for dinner- it’s been awhile since we did that, I don’t know though. Yesterday was same old same day Tuesday. I am finally getting most of the second song- but we are moving on to the third so I don’t know how much I will actually remember. April 17th is the last day of classes- so that means we have 7 weeks of classes- so that final will be within the next 7 weeks- and we still have to learn the 3rd song… and I can’t really remember the 1st one. Hopefully we will do a lot of review! I was speaking to some of my Ghanaian friends and they can’t remember their songs either and they have been doing this for 3 years so I don’t feel as bad.

Last night there was a futball game, some people were watching it on the top floor of the building- if that is the noise at a hostel watching the game of TV I cannot even imagine the noise at the actual game. Let’s just say I can not wait to go! I think we are going the last weekend in March- one of the girl’s birthdays is that weekend- which would be a lot of fun. There are so many things on the list- but I would rather do these types of things- more culture that way! Going on trips is great but most of the time you don’t learn about the culture- you lay on the beach- I want to take ever moment and learn the most I can about Ghanaian culture. That’s why I am here. Not to party and go to clubs or lay on the beach. Don’t get me wrong its nice but am I really reaching out and learning?

Our group has been plagued with sickness this week. I think I total of 5 people have been to the hospital for varying things. Dehlia spend 2 nights- she had a bacteria infection of some sort. Ryan still hasn’t gotten his results- but he is feeling better, Kaci has a cyst on her eye, Sonja has been sick-don’t know if she went to the hospital- maybe just the clinic, Danielle has Malaria for the second time on the trip, I believe…that’s I think it. A lot of this is through others so who knows what is really going on. As a group we were good until now. Hopefully this will be the week and we won’t have anything else. Let’s keep our fingers crossed.

I think that is about it for now- two shows this weekend. Vagina Monologues on Thursday and Dinner for Promotion on Saturday- looking forward to both, and now that I know people in both it makes it better! I actually helped one of the Ghanaians the other day with her lines- I felt like I was at home again. I think I might go to the orphanage on Sunday for the day- I have to call to make sure that’s okay- but I figured the kids are home, I am around this weekend- I should go.

<3 Midge

Thursday:
Today I woke up to a rain storm- drum class was canceled. Theatre Management took place in the hottest, sweetest, a stinky room ever. Part of the campus has been out of power for about 2 days... so no fans- no wind makes for a stinky and hot classroom. Thankfully about 30 minutes before class closed the power came- FANS!!! Yea- Israel and I walked to the night market and meet up with a group of people and had dinner. About 14 ISEPers went to see Jenn and Alyssa in the Vagina Monologues. I need to see it next year at Southern to compare the shows- because I know they are very different! I am about to head to bed since it is 11pm- late for me... I dont know what I am doing tomorrow- but for now. Peace and love. Midge

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

I didn't know life could get any better

So yesterday was Monday if you all didn't know. Monday= orphanage. But yesterday morning I went to the market and picked up my skirt! I love it! Its looks great. I modeled (yes- I modeled clothing) last night! I am wearing it Saturday for the show. I can not wait to get more made. I bought fabric from my adopted fabric lady mother at the market again to have a skirt made out of. So I have fabric for skirt, dress, and drum case still to do...

So Bethany was already in Teshie so yesterday was my first Tro-Tro ride by myself...and ended up going back alone because Bethany came back to campus- but I succeeded! I got to the orphanage the bigger of the two twins (Agogo) was up- the one who screamed if we looked at her...well something changed because before i knew it she was on my lap. The smaller of the two woke up from her nap and they put her in the stroller were Agogo had been. Well the next thing both of them were on my lap- playing with each other, playing with my hair, licking me and just having a good time... It was amazing. I have always wanted twins (for what reason I do not know) and this only affirmed that. The children came home and at one point the smaller one started crying so Auntie took her from me and I went to the front of the building where the children do their school work and had Agogo till I left! It was great! I brought the 'futball' for the kids yesterday- they were so excited. So they all had little to no homework yesterday and when they were done I asked Auntie if they could play and she said yes. But when Mother got back from an errand- she did not like that they were playing- she said they should have been studying- so i dont know who was in the wrong- There was another volunteer there Richard- he is Ghanaian- he is taking his SATs this fall hopefully to go to school in the states. He wants to study Physics or Engineering. He was confused by the playing and learning- and he grew up here! He said some days you just never know. I told him I would help him as much as I can with school searching and such- It wasn't that long ago that I was in his boat- there arn't guidance councilors or anything like that here to help students out so they are completely on their own. Which must not be fun! He works full time and then goes to the orphanage each day to help with homework- if it wasnt over an hour away I would go more often. Coming home it just felt so good to be making a difference for people who are older then me (Richard) and children just beginning life's journey. Feelings that I will never forget and hopefully never forget- if that makes sense. Off to classes.... Midge

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Until I can change the link- this is album 6....

http://picasaweb.google.com/midge.mij/UGSpring2009Pt6?authkey=PzCpfH5qQJo&feat=directlink

Can things get any better??

Days just seem to be getting better and better. This morning Andi, Israel and I attended the interdenominational service (Known as LIC). The service was long but was amazing. It was about 2 hours and 45 minutes. We ended up being late because we were told the wrong time but we were defiantly not the last ones there. The songs were just so beautiful, I wish I had a quarter of the talent that the musical ministers had. The actual sermon was actually very boring and Andi who had been before said this was the worst one yet. I defiantly want to go again- they have different people give sermons different weeks so hopefully if I go again it will be better.

Last night I just hung around the hostel. Went to bed on the early side- and ended up waking up at 1am for no reason and really never got back to a real sleep. But I really don’t feel that tired right now- but it is only 3pm, I have some homework that I should do at some point- but no hurry on that. My burn is feeling better but still hurts a little.

I spoke to Nana and Papa this morning which was nice. It is always nice to talk to people- I can not believe that in 3 months I will be leaving this place. It feels like home and the idea of leaving terrifies me but I do miss so many people at home that the thought of not seeing them again terrifies me. Why can’t there be the best of both worlds? Who knows?

There are a few pictures up from Saturday’s Day trip to Kpong (Bead Village) for you to see. See link #6.

That’s it.
Midge

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Today was fabulous!!!!

So today was an absolutely fabulous day. Not that most days are not here. Andi and I left hostel around 9:15 am to head to Kpong which is a village to the North-East of Accra. It is about a two hour tro-tro ride. We easily transferred from Medina Market to a Tro-tro to Kpong. Though our mate and driver did not know where we were trying to go we got to the Kpong station and got some help from a local women and we meet up with Moses a taxi driver who knew where we were going and agreed to work as a "guide" for us. We went to the Cedi Beading Shop where we received a tour from Mark one of the bead makers. He walked us through the steps of the 5 different types of beads that they make, showed us where they fire the beads and the process and then the polishing process. We then off course went into the shop (we had planned on going to the market to buy beads as well but the prices at the shop were very good). I bought a ton of beads which I will turn into presents for many different people. They are all soooo beautiful. The shop was in the middle of a field and it was just beautiful. Moses then took us back to the market- we walked around for a bit- but we both had bought what we wanted.

So we crossed the street and easily found a tro-tro back to Accra and one that would drop us off at Legon (our stop) with out having to make a transfer somewhere else. We are getting so much better at this whole tro-tro thing. I am even starting to get some of the hand motions down so I don't have to yell and go after tro-tros.Easy as pie. We did get stopped at the police barricade again but a single cedi payed off the officer for our one extra person. Except for the lady in the row with us who took up half of the row for three the trip home was fast and except for a few very rough bumps pretty painless. We got back around 3:30pm. Which all in all was a long but short day.

Oh the fun!

So yesterday we went to the beach- it was not too crowed which is always nice- we got beds and I dont think I was out for more then 2 hours when I started to feel very warm- you guessed it I have a beautiful red back and back of my legs- I put sunscreen on but the sun is so powerful here....surprisingly though this is my first painful sun burn that I have had. I had one but over night it became a tan. I slept well though which is great. Because usually after a sunburn I cant sleep. So hopefully the back of my legs will turn to some color- that doesn't solve the front of my legs- Maybe I will stick them out of my door for a bit and we will see what happens.

Andi, Max, Ryan C, Dehlia, Angi (Andi's Room-mate, Ghanaian) and me went to see A Diary of A Mad Black Women last nite. Andi has meet a few people who worked in her hometown (small town America- so its ironic) this summer and invited them along. So there was about 10 people in total which was fun. I have many different expectations of theatre here, so when the play started 30 minutes late it didn't mater. When the first 3 scene changes took about 3 minutes each- I didn't care. At home I would have gone up and done them myself! But sitting in an open air theatre and seeing the difference just makes the whole experience different. Their ASM was in the audience and was make cattle type calls to cue the scene changes, entrances, and lights- It was very interesting because at first we all thought is was someone being annoying and then I noticed the calling. Not the way we call a show at home but it works when that is all that you have! I love the interaction between the audience and actors here- There is basically no fourth wall but then there is- that will make sense to some... but its a whole different world. It was a fun evening. They posted the schedule for the rest of the semester and the one show that I know for sure that I am going to miss is Beauty and the Beast- which makes me upset but I have to pick and choice, there might be a very small chance I could go Thursday if we do not leave for Mole until Friday but I think we might leave Thursday. But there are so many others- and I have to try to fit in the National Theatre, Futball game, and museums in the city... ahh. Only 12 weeks left and sooo many things to do...Andi and I were discussing how we are counting weeks- its not that we want to go home- we want to tell everyone in person about the experience and to remind us how sort our time is here.

Well off to get ready for the day- I might take pictures today might not- but dont expect my weekends of 150+ pictures on Monday...

<3Midge

Friday, February 20, 2009

So the rest of Thursdays and Plans for Today

Well yesterday was a good day. but Drumming is kicking my butt right now- This song is so much harder then the last- I don't even get it to a point that I can practice. I then had my Theatre Management Class- and I have learned that even the performing arts council is corrupt. Our lecturer worked for them when he first got out of school which is at least 20 years ago and told us lots of stories about life on the road. To say the least all of us were a little bored!

After class Israel and Prince came over. We hung out with a bunch of different people- my room has become a good hang out because I don't have a room-mate its easy to sit and chat in my room. I got to ask some questions for my Independent Study- I have one more interview and then I can get started on the papers. We then went to the night market for dinner. Even with bug spray I can not seem not to be bitten all the time. The ants invaded my weekly pill container so I lost some pills to those suckers. I think I have them under control- I think I figured out where they were coming from...and I think I have them....The boys then escorted us back to the building because they had rehearsal to attend. Then more of us hung out. It was a basically carefree night.

I am going to the beach today- my legs finally look like they have some color- but i need to even out...its bad. I am then going to see "Diary of A Mad Black Women" by Tyler Perry tonight. There are a bunch of us going which should be a lot of fun! I am heading on a day trip on Saturday- should be fun- hopefully I will be able to find some great jewelry!!!

Thats it- Love
Midge

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Thursday Morning

So today is going to be easy-

Drumming this morning. I figured out with the help of Andi the rhythm that has been getting me in class for the last two meetings YEAH!!! I then have a few hour break until Theatre Management at 3:30. Since Twi is canceled this week because last week to many people missed the Mon/Wed section ours got canceled this week. My friends from class Israel and Price (its a common name here) are coming over- we are gonna hang out with some of the other people from my group, and then maybe go off campus for food or go to the night market- its interesting how the night market basically is the same food for all 3 meals but I have not gotten tired of it. I am sure at some point I will get tired of it...

Thats my day- nothing too exciting. I did sleep in a little today- until 700am. WOW I dont mind getting up early but is 6am really necessary? I think I am going to go the orphanage more a week- maybe a Saturday or Sunday here and there when I am not traveling. Mole trip with ISEP is not happening because there are not enough people so we are starting to plan our own trip. There's a group going up this weekend so I want to see how they do and then we will see how we will travel. I just want to see one elephant in the wild before I leave... or I am not leaving until I do. I would love to travel during finals week but by that point most of the animals will be gone because its the rainy season and they can find water other places. So we really should do it before the first of April. We are planning on going up the second weekend of March if all goes according.

Thats it for now.
Midge

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Update 18/2/2009:

So yesterday when walking back from the night market in broad daylight with a ton of people around to the hostel (Andi and I) were walking and as we got to a joining cross walk a man grabbed my ankle (and I am thinking omg, i dont have but 5cedis on my you can have it all) and then he said "I love your tattoo" I was like thanks- as he still has many ankle...So I wrestle it out of his hand not violently but I was loosing my balance because I was not expecting this action and he continues to read it, introduces himself, and wishes me a good day. Personal space and bubbles are very very small here. I have gotten use to it- but this is the first time that I have been really grabbed- in the market it happens and they warned us about it. But it happened. I feel fine- but at the time it was like what is going on?

Last night was basically quiet. I had one of my interviews with Kofi who is our Twi Lecturer and has a lot of knowledge of Africa for my independent study. And it was funny at the end he started asking me questions which throw me off guard- A few of them got me thinking.
1. What is the biggest thing you have learned about yourself while here? (I need to slow down and take every moment in life for granted. Each thing I do in my life is important and going one moment to the next with no reflection is not good. Also I d not get enough sleep at home. It is so nice to feel rested.)
2. What is the biggest thing you have learned about African Culture while here? (This is one of the same things I thought in India- no matter how poor someone is here, they are still happy and will ask you how your day is going before they ask you for money. African's have a soul like no other and are just beautiful people inside and out).
3. What would your family and friends think of you marrying a Ghanaian?
So for the last one I have my personal thoughts but I would like to know yours- so you know the drill- comment...

Today Andi and I went to Medina- I got fabrics and are having clothing made. I love little day trips like this! Its the day to day life things that get me excited. This Friday there is a large group of Americans and Ghanaian going to "A Diary of a Mad Black Women." and then on Saturday we are going to Kpong (thats for you Caitlin- a little north-east of Aburi) to the bead making village.

So I guess that is it...
Midge

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Well Another One of those days

So Last night did not go as Bethany and I thought- there is a lot of corruption in Ghana. There is something going on at the orphanage that we are not clean on- it has more to do with finances then it does with the care of the children- which it is clear that they are all well cared for. So we are not going to be able to sponsor Emmanuel for school. But there are a few things that we are going to do. We are going to buy school supplies for all of the children- along with the pens hat I hope to be getting within the next few weeks. We will buy notebooks and pencils. They have official notebooks for schools in Ghana which i think is interesting. Also as we talked to some of the kids this past trip we are going to take a field trip with the 10 oldest to the beach- a few other ISEPers will also go with us. We are most likely going to go on March 7th. The baby went home- which confused me a little, but they got 6month old twin girls. They are adorable. I have to remember to bring my camera next week and see if we can take pictures of the children. We had a crazy time trying to get back to Legon- after about 2.5 hours we got back and had dinner. It was a little disappointing but we will do some things that will be good for all the children.

So this morning I had my Play Analysis class. I think I have mentioned before that a girl preaches/gospel talk before class. I sit with the same group 6-8 people and we always chat before class. But I dont know if it was the weather or if I just happened to be talking a little bit louder then everyone else. Ghanaian in general are soft spoken- and I am on the loader side. But in the middle of her talk she was like Oburoni be quiet. I was taken aback because it wasn't in a nice- please way that they usually start every sentence with please but this sentence did not. I was very taken back- so next week I will just keep my volume down. The group I was with said she needs to get off of her high horse... she is ultra-conservative christian and her talks basically tell everyone that they are wrong. I respect her believes but most of the class doesn't want to listen to her- so i dont feel that talking at all is disrespectful. Its all about the experience though.

I have my first interview for my independent Study today- and have three more this week. So busy with that. Andi and I are going to Medina Market tomorrow to get some fabric so we can have clothes made.

I guess that is it for now.
Midge

Monday, February 16, 2009

So just because there is not much else to write about

Food In Ghana-

There are a lot of really good foods here-

So Red Red (or Plantains and Beans) is a very good food- its not like baked beans at home they have a little spice to them. I am not sure how to explain the way that they are made, but it is good.

Fufuo- is a ball of cassava, plantains or yam pounded to a goo. I have tried it one- will try again I just need to find a soup that I like. Fufuo is served in soup - as like tofu it has no flavor.

Banku is simular to Fufuo but instead of pounded it is boiled. I have not tried this- but plan on it.

Ghanaian Salad- is a cole slow with beans, either chicken or beef, tomato sauce and a seasoning- it is very good.

If you cant tell Plantains are big here- plantain chips, grilled, and fried- all amazing!

Jollof, fried, and white rice are big here too. Chicken and a whole fish are typical with rice.

Lots of eggs- egg sandwiches for breakfast and hard boiled for lunch or dinner.

There is a vegan stand in the night market near my hostel- she has amazing food. Salads, gyro, ochra salad, soup, agushie greens. All amazing. Oh and Yam Balls-

These are the majority of the diet here.

I am off to the orphanage this afternoon to get Emmanuel into school. Will write more later or tomorrow.

<3 Midge
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Sunday, February 15, 2009

Great Weekend- with no Valentine...

A single girl could not have asked for a better Valentine’s Day then the one that I had in Africa. Seven ISEPers (plus 2 others who didn’t stay with us) decided to venture to Ada Foah (pronounced Ada- short a, and Foe) It is a resort-y area with a lot of resorts and beautiful beached. We spent the night at the Dream Land Resort where the staff was most pleasant and accommodating. There was the 7 of us and 5 other ladies from Germany in their three huts. They were very clean and affordable. We arrived at the resort around noon on Saturday after about a 2.5 hour journey that was very uneventful which is uncommon here. We ate lunch and then headed to the beach where we stayed until sunset. Though the sunset was not as nice as we hoped for it did have a certain beauty in the way that it reflected on the water. The beach was very clean and there was no one there which allowed for most of us to read books or listen to waves crashing on the shore. I was able to collect the smoothest shells that I have ever felt here. At about 6pm when the sun disappeared we headed back to the rooms where we had porches and some people had dinner- or as I had fresh tropical fruit and ice cream. What a night- I mean you can not celebrate National Chocolate Day Aka Valentine’s day with out a piece of chocolate. The staff created a small bon fire for us. But about 15 minutes later we felt a few raindrops on our heads and the next thing we knew there was a full on tropical storm with lighting, thunder and a beautiful down pour. It was a beautiful storm. We did loose power for about 15 minutes but the staff provided us with lanterns and still brought the food that was on order in the pouring rain. It stormed until about 1am which is a long storm for the region- I did not sleep the best- not sure why but it was other wise a great stay. They were great! I am going to recommended anyone else who is going there to stay there.

The option was available for a canoe tour of Volta River which the connecting point between Lake Volta- the biggest Man Made Lake and the Atlantic Ocean. We ventured out at 8am to join Set (my guide) and his elder brother on their canoes where they brought us to the Azikpe an island where sugar cane is there big crop which means that Rum follows closely after the sugar cane. Since I do not drink I did not try what is to be considered some of the best Rum in the world but the other in the group did try it and they said it was very good. I will most likely buy some to bring home for anyone that would like to try it. I got some even more beautiful shells off of this island. The boat trip and the walk on the island was so peaceful and just had a great essence and gave a great end to the weekend. After our two hour tour was over 5 of us headed back to Legon because we have things to do tomorrow- Johnny and Lorine are staying a second night and I am sure are on the beach right now. I don’t have class but I do have an ‘appointment’ to get Emmanuel into school. So I am back showered, feed, and unpacked and will enjoy the rest of the day or either reading or catching up with people.

Photos Ghana 5 are up check them out!

Midge

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Quick Little Update

So yesterday was just one of those relaxing days- I think I get about 2 a week... but okay, right?

Andi and I and then Dehlia joined us in going to see the production of Run for Your Wife. Can I just say I haven't laughed that much in a very very very long time if ever. It was very interesting to see theater in a different country sitting in the outdoors enjoying a production well done. I have never seen the show or read the script before but there were so many cultural differences that were changed for the production- most of them I think I got. There is a show next weekend and then two the following week. For 2.00cedi about 1.50USD you can not beat a night out. I rather spend 10cedi to go to a show then spend 20cedi to go hang out at a bar where I will just watch everyone else get drunk and be idiots. The three of us are making plans for the next weekends, which should be fun.

I am leaving in about a half hour for my weekend trip. Happy Valentine's Day!
Midge

Friday, February 13, 2009

So about a month in I guess I can do this

So I have been here for about 5 weeks so I guess I can do this listing. Just a fact they say it takes about 21 days for your taste buds to change. I will do this before I leave as well- but I figured this would be a fun little entry for a day of nothing....I was going to go the market- but I don't think so today- lol (see laziness later)

Things I will Miss when I go back to the States:
-Glass bottles of soda (but Diet Coke is hard to find and they charge more for it)
-Friends that I have made of both Ghanaian, American, and European.
-The culture- which now i feel I am a part of in the way that I can
-Peacefulness of daily life
-"laziness" not having to worry about deadlines and what time you get somewhere- IT IS SO HARD FOR ME...
-The souls of people. Some one asked me at the woodcarving village what I liked most about Ghana and I said the souls of the Ghanaian- he shock my hand and told me 'god bless'... This land is beautiful, the people are beautiful inside and out.
-Jollof Rice.
-Food from the Vegan Stand in the Night Market
-Egg Sandwiches- (breakfast)

Things I will not miss-
-bug spray before bed
-clean feet- I think my feet are 4 shades different then my body- no matter how much you scrub
-Malaria pills daily
-Diet coke-
-Sand in your mouth- and you dont know how it got there.
-Hand Washing laundry- even though its not that bad- just takes time
- Not having access to 'real' cheese and milk.

Thats it at this time- Working on my independent study and reading for the rest of the day.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Thursday Evening

Today has been good-
I passed my drum exam- not that it is really anything to pass or fail if that makes sense. We as a class passed- I don’t know what that really means but okay! I got my Twi exam back 19/25 which is good.

The concert was fun. Not what I expected it was a mix of African and western music so not as traditional as I thought it was going to be. It was still fun and hanging around with friends under a sky full of stars makes for a great evening.

I purchased two more of my books- which aren’t books they are photocopies because the access to books here is so limited they photocopy which the librarian in me is questioning the copyright infringement there but oh well. Right? (Only about 2USD for two plays you cant beat that).

So Bethany and I (and a few others not sure exactly yet) have decided that one of the boys Emmanuel must go to school. For a child to attend school here its about 150cedis or about 100USD per term. Each school varies, and first semester is usually more because of books and supplies that need to be purchased. Both him and his sister Sarah are at the Teshie Orphanage. Emmanuel have up his schooling this year so Sarah could go. She is 17 and he is a few years younger (we think 15). He is very bright and should be in school. So we are all going to pitch in and pay for him to go to school and also get him supplies. If anyone would like to send pens to me- regular old BIC pens (ask for the address if you don’t have it- you would need to send them in the fluffy envelopes which is about 9.00USD to send if light weight), I want to get the orphanage pens. Pens are over 1USD per. It is so expensive for the people here. The children here don’t beg for money they beg us for pens so they can take their exams. One thing I wanted to do here before leaving was to make a true difference to one person’s life. This is a way of doing it. Bethany and I are also going to pay for Emmanuel’s education until he finished senior-secondary school, which would be 3 more years. So on Monday we are going to go and tell the Mother that we want to do this and that we want to get him enrolled as soon as possible because he is a term behind, but we can help him to get caught up. Sarah and I really clicked she is 17. Her studies are focused on Math and Science though those are more of my stronger subjects but it has been so long since I did these types of problems. So I am going to re-learn and help her. Bethany was helping more of the 3rd and 4th graders with work. Its fun to help with school work when its not yours.

Random- I think i meet the first homosexual Ghanaian of the trip. Just aside. Homosexuality is not spoken about here and not really accepted- its like the military of dont ask dont tell. Because there is such a European influence here it is sometimes hard to say but I think he might have been- things like this I dont even think about walking around but then when I start to write its like hmmm... Oh the things you can think.

I guess that is it for now.
Midge